We now try to find out the meaning of forgiveness for our lives. It is good to understand the way the forgiveness works in our lives. We find many occasion of forgiveness in our daily life and how we tackle the situations. It is looked through three different angles namely expression, devotion and expectation.

Expression - love: Forgiveness always expresses in love. Without love forgiveness is incomplete. So if anyone claims that he forgives and cannot express his forgiveness, in reality he is never able to forgive.  The real forgiveness is expressed in love towards all, even to the enemies.  There is no distinction in its expression. The heart becomes clear and one can love from the heart. This is the real sign of expression of love.  There are no more burdens, pains, hurt feeling in the heart instead the heart will be occupied with love, joy and peace.  This expression of love will not  in between. When love flows there are no blocks in between nor does it break from time to time if it is genuine love.  Those who learn to grow in love? may go through the breaking and blocking of the love.

Devotion - Love: In real forgiveness the devotion is only towards love.  What is not true will not be accepted by them. If not our devotion is towards the truth.  Those who speak the truth and guide us into truth will become our best friends.  those who are leading us to sin and evil will never be taken as either friends or advisers for our lives.  In real forgiveness, our devotion is towards love not to any of our material gains.  The benefits and gifts will not change our attitude.  If there is no proper love and forgiveness our interest will be in things and the person we like most not in those who are genuinely interested in our growth into love.

Expectation - Love: The human life gives the best result in it only when it is guided and lead to the habit of love.  There is no life that can be beautiful without love. The expectation of forgiveness is love.  When we expect love only then we can have it in our lives.  When we stress that our desires to be fulfilled in our lives then there comes unforgiveness.  The forgiveness will work only if we expect love and work for love.  There is no other middle pathway. When our expectation turns from love and moves to anything else that can lead us tot he feeling of resentments, negative anger, hatred, unforgiveness etc.  Then be sure that we have not forgiven.  When our expectation moves around selfishness the same thing can happen.  When we are biased or when we become partial, or even when we expect our own good i.e. anything other than love can lead one to the same situation of unforgiveness in one's life.  The channels of love work only when we are in the line of love and in the expectation of love.